In order to undestand how to get what you want, the first step to take is towards self-awareness.

So, let me ask you a simple question “what exactly are you looking for that you haven’t gotten so far?“.

I am asking you this question because I want you to focus for a few moments on your goal, how you feel about it and your inner motivations to get this result.

What is your desire and aspiration? Why do you want to get this result? On a scale of 1 to 10, where are you right now? How do you feel about it? Confident, optimistic and enthusiastic? Maybe, but most likely, probably not so much.

So, just take a few seconds to ask yourself these questions and write down up to three words to describe your present state. Do not think too much about it, it should be your gut answer.

My desire is ________________________________________________________________________________________

This desire is important to me because _____________________________________________________________

I am at ________ out of 10 against it

I feel ________________________________________________________________________________________about it

Let me to tell you why I wanted you to focus, at first, on your desire and state of mind.

I asked you this because clarity is power, and clarity leads people to take the right actions. Many people do not really realize what they want and why they want it. You understand that, under these circumstances, it becomes quite hard to get anywhere. It looks like going grocery shopping with no list of what we need. Of course, without any direction we become very vulnerable to any external solicitation whether it is marketing, advertising or the whim of the moment.

Now, let me ask you another question. “Why do you believe you don’t already have what you desire?“.

To move forward and find a new way to overcome any current barrier, we must try to figure out why you have not achieved your goal, yet, or why you think you have not yet succeeded. This point is crucial because, if we don’t address and understand why we don’t already have something we really want, chances are that we will never get it for the very same reasons. In order to deal effectively with something, we must address the very root of the problem and avoid spending time focusing on what is not the issue.

Furthermore, it is likely that this is the very blockage that prevents you from succeeding even in other areas of your life. Ask yourself this simple question and write down the answer: what does lay in the way between you and your goal? Why haven’t you still achieved what you wanted?

This is something I had been asking myself too for approximately a decade, without getting basically anywhere. “Why am I struggling so much to get some result, and after a short while, I get so exhausted that I bounce back at the stage I started?”. Do you relate to this feeling?

In next posts I will go through the main mistakes that prevent people to get what they want. Stay tuned because it’s going to be interesting and fun!

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