So many of us were taught conditional love. We learnt and trusted it. And now we are suffering because of it.
Conditional love is just an illusion. It brings the illusion of closeness and symbiosis, whereas it creates separation and frustration.
Conditional love forgets, fades away, dies, compares, weights, evaluates, judges, thinks, controls, possesses.
Conditional love wants to fulfil its own needs throughout you. It tells: “I really want you to make me happy, as I am not able to do it on my own. You must take care of my happiness and fulfilment: if you don’t, that means you don’t love me and I don’t love you back“.
Conditional love creates bonds based upon guilt, rather than freedom and self expression. It keeps you small and limited as it wants to control you and it punishes you for daring to break its rules. It says: “I’d want so much to love you, but you stand in my way…you are not the way I want you to be. I suffer because of that…and this is all your fault“.
Conditional love finds countless excuses for not being so lovely and, usually, you and your flaws are the main excuse.
Conditional love is blind and deaf, as it just sees and listen to its void that it tries to fulfil at any cost.
Conditional love dwells in your gut, whenever you feel it shrinking and anguishing.
We were taught that conditional love is true love and, somehow, we accepted it even though deep down we all know the truth.
So, don’t love each other and especially your children in such conditional way because they don’t, they love you unconditionally the way you are, no matter what mistakes you’ve made. Love always gives another chance.
If we allowed one another to deeply love ourselves and to be in charge of our own happiness we would be way freer, happier, healthier.
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